The crazy 'date' talk aside, this is a serious issue. If you believe you are being singled out for harassment because of your sex, or for other reasons, you should file a formal complaint against this guy. If he is harassing you and other people, why continue to ignore it? They are there to 'protect and serve' and not to harass your legal passage on public roads. These harassments often can continue and escalate. Act now, it's not a joke.
Good advice, and you should keep a log of all your interactions with officer friendly.........but
This is not a perfect world and the justice system is nowhere near perfect.
Things could escalate if you do file a complaint. Fighting the police can be an ugly situation. My parents lived next door to a couple that actually moved to a different state after having a similar situation with local police. They endured over 2 years of being followed, pulled over for ANY possible reason and threatened. The wife and cop had an accident and the jury found the cop at fault. No injury's or massive law suit just a simple accident ruined there lives !
I also have a friend that made the mistake of dating a cops ex girlfriend.
His life was a living hell for a while and at one point he ended up in the basement of the police station getting his butt kicked by 4 cops.
He sought legal council and could not even find a lawyer interested in helping him. The legal advice he received ???? They all told him to move on forget about it and find a new girlfriend !
I would hate to see a situation that seems very annoying escalate into a nightmare for you !
Think long and hard before you take action. If you truly feel threatened, unsafe or the harassment is just too much do what you must.
I would suggest getting a lawyer to help you file a complaint. That will send a clear message that your serious, have legal council and will be prepared to fight further harassment. That may make the difference between stopping the harassment or just having the problem escalate.
Abuse of power sucks !!! Both of the examples of harassment I mentioned to good upper middle class decent people. Just want you to understand it can happen to anyone. You don't need to be a toothless crackhead to find yourself on the wrong end of police harassment.
Have to mention I think the vast majority of police are doing a great job in one of the toughest jobs in the world ! A few bad apples can cast them in a bad light. They do tend to protect each other and stick together. I cant blame them for that considering what they endure.
Good luck Missy and I hope the situation works out for you.
Lets all pray he gets a shit change and you never see him again !