So after about 200 miles today, and changing the SpeedoDRD I have come out with something that works.
First off, the bike was surging due to the Speedo DRD. At -7.1% it was a shit show. So I then backed it off to nothing, and it was fine. Then ran it at -6.8% and it was a shit show. So I then tried -4.9% and it was fine. Moved it to -5.5% and there was no surging but almost felt like it kinda wanted too, so now its at -5.2% and its solid. Also, it is either dead on or 1mph fast so that is fine with me. I can deal with it perfectly fine with where it is now. I am just happy it was something dumb and not some BS that other people go through with the surging on these beasts.
In about 20 miles I will hit 13K. Woot! 530 mile trip planned for this weekend so that works!